Redfield Q & A Redfield Q & A Too Picky? I guess what I am asking Bryan is; should I hang on, and keep trying to prove to her how much I love her and am not the "typical guy", like she wants to believe, or is this woman scarred for life, and there is no getting through to her?
Redfield Q & A Jeopardize Our Friendship? Our time together will come to a close in a few days, and I'm not really sure if I should, or how I should go about telling her how I feel about her. I'm not really sure if she feels the same way or if saying such things would jeopardize our friendship.
Redfield Q & A How Can I Get Over My Jealousy You see, he has his own apartment and they lived together for some months before I met him and this makes me suffer. I think of this all the time. If he loved her, how they spent their time together, what shared.
Redfield Q & A Beginner's Mistake I am 27 and have spent the vast majority of my adult life single and unattached to any woman. As a result I am very independent and am have never felt like I really needed anyone else to make me happy. I also am unfortunately as a result pretty inexperienced when it comes to playing games of the heart.
Redfield Q & A Long Distance Love How do you deal with a long distance love? We plan to marry in a few years but he's away at a college and I am stuck [sic] here at college. Our phone conversations just leave me feeling sad and alone (also about $20 poorer!) any advice for a lonely girl?
Redfield Q & A Should I Be a Jerk or Should I Be Nice Bryan I'm confused, on the one hand I'm told to ignore beautiful women or even be rude to them because they aren't used to it and will chase you to insure their self esteem. On the other hand, I'm a believer in associative conditioning which says never to have negative feeling attached to you.
Redfield Q & A I Want To Go Her Way I see her fairly often. She often invites me to study with her (in the library as its exam time). Sounds promising but I really cant tell and I'm not really sure if I want to go her way. I would have tried by now if she was someone else but she is a friend. I don't want to loose her as a friend (this is most important) but I would like to get to know her in a more personal way.
Redfield Q & A Dating A Stripper Sex with her was good, but I have had better. I genuinely like her, but the most perplexing thing to me is that she RARELY calls. Making the relationship work is mostly me. I put forth 95% of the effort...hers is the 5% b/c all she has to do is not cancel.
Redfield Q & A I Fell In Love With A Jerk Needless to say I fell in love with a jerk who didn't love me, I decided not to stand for the emotional abuse anymore and discontinue the relationship. He calls me constantly telling me he loves me, gets laid and is gone for another week or two.
Redfield Q & A My Friends Girl Friend Now here's the problem: This lady friend of mine is very involved with one of my good friends. Being that he is such a good buddy to me, I could never think of invading his love life, but I need to let this girl know how I feel without sending her into shock.
