I agree that men have a different level of sexual desire than women, but at the same time I don’t agree they need to bring images of other women in their mind for self-gratification. As a woman I also have desires to be released, and I don’t need to get images of men to get the job done!

This is not because I am not a visual person; it is because I find it would be disrespectful. There are other ways to take care of business.

Dolly


Dolly, in the musical "My Fair Lady" Professor Henry Higgins sings, "Why can’t a woman be more like a man?" We often get letters from women who seem to be humming a tune called "Why can’t a man be more like a woman?"

Two thousand years ago the Roman poet Ovid wrote about Pygmalion, a sculptor who was revolted by the flaws of the female sex. This confirmed bachelor created a statue of a woman so realistic he fell in love with it. Then the goddess Venus took pity on Pygmalion and brought the statue to life.

No one will bring to life a woman’s idea of what a man should be like, nor bring to life a man’s idea of a woman. But understanding what we are actually like makes possible a love deeper than anything we can imagine.

Tamara


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